Interpersonal attraction is very simply what causes friendships and relationships. It’s a major point of psychological study. And there’s really not much hard data on why one person might be attracted to another person and not attracted or even repulsed by someone else. Interpersonal attraction, despite all the studies, is really somewhat a mystery.
There are certain principles at work, of course. It’s believed that people are attracted to people of approximately the same level of physical attractiveness. And that people of the same social background and similar economic situations will experience the interpersonal attraction that draws them together.
But also that in some cases, people who are very different in other aspects are more likely to be attracted to each other and happy together than two people very much alike in terms of things like dominance and personality.
Interpersonal attraction is an area that you have more control over than you think. You may not necessarily be able focus on and attract a specific person, but you can use various techniques to attract a certain type of person into your life.
The universal Law of Attraction tells us that like attracts like. Magnetic attraction will draw certain things to you based on what you believe and more specifically how you feel. If you are not feeling good and are seeking a relationship in an attempt to feel better, it typically backfires because you usually will attract someone that is a match to how you feel. They are probably going to be coming from a needy emotional place and looking for a relationship also to get validation that they are desirable. The good news is that after you learn how to be happy on your own, you can consciously create a heathy relationship by attracting a partner that is also in a good place. Success coaching with Focus on Your Success empowers you with tools to release negativity and be really happy and fulfilled on your own. Then you will seek realtionshIps for the simple goal of enjoying others instead of having expectations of them fulfilling all your needs. After you have attained a place of joy consistently on your own, you can then decide what type of people you would like to interract with and have faith that a person meeting those criteria exists and can come into your life.
Gaining clarity regarding the type of person you’d like to meet and using specific LOA tools to maintain the “feeling place” of being consistently happy will help attract a person with the qualities you desire. Interpersonal attraction, the attraction of a person that complIments us and would make a great friend or partner, is affected by our beliefs, thoughts as well as our feelings.
Our attitude and patterns of beliefs affect our feelings and they in turn affect what we attract in our busniess and financial lives as well. If you can decide that you can have prosperity and therefore you attract it, you can decide that you can have a positive person around you as your friend or your partner and then attract a positive person.
Your belief that you can get what you want automatically surrounds you in an aura of positivity. This alone will affect those you attract by putting out a signal for other positive people. If people tend to gravitate toward those who complement their personalities, then your positive aura will attract other positive people.
Your openness to financial prosperity and good fortune will also work in your favor by attracting people into your life who hold the same beliefs and openness. The power of positive thought can do amazing things in every aspect of your life, not just in your job, your financial situation and your level of happiness, but also in the type of person you attract.
Since attraction must be mutual for it to work, focusing on your positive qualities daily can help interpersonal attraction work in your favor by bringing self-confident people that are like minded into your life.